Why Pre-Planning Your Funeral Is the Right Thing to Do
Buffy Johnston • July 9, 2026
Pre-planning your funeral is one of the most thoughtful gifts you can give your family. It removes the pressure of making difficult decisions during a time of grief and ensures your wishes are honored exactly as you intend.
Pre planning also locks in today’s prices, protecting your family from rising costs and unexpected expenses. Most importantly, it gives you control, allowing you to choose the services, traditions, and details that reflect your life.
Taking time now brings peace of mind later, offering clarity, comfort, and guidance when your loved ones need it most.
Planning isn’t just practical; it’s an act of love that lasts for generations.
Independence Day is a meaningful time to remember the veterans who protected the freedoms we celebrate. Families can honor a loved one by visiting their gravesite, placing a flag, or sharing stories that keep their legacy alive. Attending a local ceremony, volunteering with a veterans’ organization, or donating in their name are thoughtful ways to continue their service. Even simple acts like displaying their photo, cooking their favorite meal, or pausing for a moment of gratitude can create a powerful tribute. This Fourth of July, we encourage families to reflect on the courage, sacrifice, and dedication of the veterans who helped secure our nation’s independence.
Grief is a natural response to loss, and its intensity softens with time. Revisit summer activities you once enjoyed and see whether they bring comfort. Spend time outdoors when you can; sunlight and fresh air can ease stress. Try meaningful activities that honor your loved one, such as doing something they enjoyed. Explore new traditions or hobbies when you feel ready. Support grieving children by reassuring them it’s okay to enjoy summer and keeping routines steady. Connect with others who understand; support groups and community programs can make this season feel less isolating.
Summer often brings a slower pace, vacations, and time away from routine, but grief doesn’t pause with the season. When social circles scatter and regular activities take a break, it’s easy for someone grieving to feel overlooked or unsure how to reach out for support. This can make an already painful time feel even heavier. If you’re grieving this summer, your feelings are valid. It may help to connect with a support group or share openly with trusted friends who can walk beside you. And if you know someone who is grieving, small gestures, an invitation, a check-in, or a simple act of kindness can make a meaningful difference. No matter the season, staying connected helps us carry one another through.
