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Each week, our funeral home directors share helpful answers, practical guidance, and real-world advice on funeral planning, cremation, grief support, veterans benefits, and more.

Supporting a Bereaved Parent After the Loss of a Child

November 3, 2025

Understanding Parental Grief

Losing a child shatters the natural order of life, leaving parents facing unimaginable pain. Beyond the physical loss, it represents the death of hopes, dreams, and the future once envisioned. Each parent’s grief is deeply personal - marked by waves of sadness, guilt, disbelief, and longing. There is no timeline for healing, and no “right way” to grieve.


Offering Compassion and Support

 The best support is quiet, consistent, and nonjudgmental. Instead of offering advice or searching for words to “fix” the pain, focus on  listening  and showing up . Practical gestures - delivering meals, helping with errands, or assisting with surviving children - can lift a tremendous weight from grieving parents. Compassion means walking beside them without expectation, recognizing that grief may last a lifetime.


Helping the Whole Family Heal

The loss of a child affects siblings and family members alike. Encourage open, age-appropriate conversations so children can express emotions freely. Family rituals, remembrance activities, and counseling can bring everyone together on the path toward healing. Over time, ongoing community, faith-based, or counseling support helps parents rediscover meaning while honoring their child’s memory.

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Honor, Remember, Act: A Message for Breast Cancer Awareness Month

By Buffy Johnston • October 1, 2026
October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, a time to honor survivors, remember loved ones, and encourage early detection. While breast cancer is most commonly associated with women, men can also be affected, often with later diagnoses due to lack of awareness. Regular screenings, knowing your family history, and paying attention to changes in breast tissue are essential steps for everyone. Early detection remains the strongest tool we have for saving lives through timely treatment and increased options. This month, we encourage both men and women to speak with their healthcare providers, schedule screenings, and share information with those they love. Awareness is powerful, but action is what protects our families and our community.

The Lasting Benefits of Preplanning

By Buffy Johnston • September 24, 2026
Preplanning a funeral is one of the most meaningful gifts you can give your family. It allows you to make thoughtful choices in advance, ensuring your wishes are clearly understood and honored. This brings comfort to loved ones during a time when decision making can feel overwhelming. Preplanning also provides financial clarity. By planning ahead of time, families are protected from unexpected costs and can avoid the stress of last-minute decisions. It creates a sense of stability and reassurance for everyone involved. Most importantly, preplanning offers peace of mind. It allows families to focus on remembrance and healing, knowing every detail has been thoughtfully prepared with care.

Why a Funeral Still Matters When Choosing Cremation

By Buffy Johnston • September 17, 2026
Choosing cremation does not lessen the need to honor a life with meaningful remembrance. A funeral gives family and friends a moment to gather, reflect, and acknowledge the significance of a loved one’s life. It creates space for shared stories, comfort, and connection, which are essential parts of healing. A ceremony also provides a sense of closure. It marks the transition from loss to remembrance and helps families begin to move forward with support from their community. Cremation simply changes the final disposition, not the value of coming together. Funerals remind us that every life deserves to be recognized, celebrated, and remembered with intention.