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Funeral Talk

Each week, our funeral home directors share helpful answers, practical guidance, and real-world advice on funeral planning, cremation, grief support, veterans benefits, and more.

Dressing Respectfully for a Summer Funeral

Buffy Johnston • June 4, 2026

Choosing attire for a summer funeral can feel challenging, especially when trying to balance comfort with respect. Warm weather often calls for lighter fabrics, but the tone of the occasion still guides what is appropriate.


Soft, breathable materials like cotton or linen help you stay cool while maintaining a neat, modest appearance. Light, muted colors such as gray, beige, or soft pastels work well and avoid the heaviness of darker shades. Keep patterns subtle and accessories simple, so the focus remains on the service.


Light layers, comfortable shoes, and minimal fragrance ensure you stay prepared for changing temperatures and outdoor settings. Dressing thoughtfully allows you to honor the moment with dignity while remaining comfortable throughout the day.

Finding Spiritual Comfort After a Loss

By Buffy Johnston • July 16, 2026
Grief is often a deeply spiritual experience, touching the heart and soul in ways we don’t expect. After a loss, many people naturally begin searching for meaning, wondering why life changes, what happens after death, and how to feel whole again. These questions are normal, and there is no quick or simple answer. Healing takes time, patience, and compassion for yourself. One helpful step is practicing daily spiritual self care. Whether through prayer, meditation, music, reading, or quiet reflection, choose something that brings you peace and connection. You may also find comfort in speaking with a spiritual advisor or someone who offers gentle guidance. With small, intentional steps, you can begin finding meaning and light again.

Why Pre-Planning Your Funeral Is the Right Thing to Do

By Buffy Johnston • July 9, 2026
Pre-planning your funeral is one of the most thoughtful gifts you can give your family. It removes the pressure of making difficult decisions during a time of grief and ensures your wishes are honored exactly as you intend. Pre planning also locks in today’s prices, protecting your family from rising costs and unexpected expenses. Most importantly, it gives you control, allowing you to choose the services, traditions, and details that reflect your life. Taking time now brings peace of mind later, offering clarity, comfort, and guidance when your loved ones need it most. Planning isn’t just practical; it’s an act of love that lasts for generations.

Honoring a Veteran on Independence Day

By Buffy Johnston • July 2, 2026
Independence Day is a meaningful time to remember the veterans who protected the freedoms we celebrate. Families can honor a loved one by visiting their gravesite, placing a flag, or sharing stories that keep their legacy alive. Attending a local ceremony, volunteering with a veterans’ organization, or donating in their name are thoughtful ways to continue their service. Even simple acts like displaying their photo, cooking their favorite meal, or pausing for a moment of gratitude can create a powerful tribute. This Fourth of July, we encourage families to reflect on the courage, sacrifice, and dedication of the veterans who helped secure our nation’s independence.